We don’t think you’re being managing. But i believe the you both want to sit back and calmly find your relationship boundaries together. Otherwise, he can feel like you’re imposing like you can really trust him to stick to the “rules” you’ve laid down on him, and you won’t feel. Hash that one out together, reach the source of one’s vexation therefore until you both get to relationship boundaries that are comfortable for both of you and respect the friendships and relationships that predate your romance that you can articulate it to your Boyfriend or Best Friend, and be willing to compromise. (more…)